Things happy couples never do

Relationships need dedication and effort to thrive. While certain things are required in a relationship, there are some that should be dodged. Of course, every little thing is different for different couples, and what works for one may not necessarily work for the other. But not doing the following 10 things makes for the happiest couples.  

1. Happy couples don’t compare their relationship with that of others’. They know and appreciate the fact that no two relationships can be the same.
2. They don’t complain about their partners to friends and family. If they aren’t happy with something they speak to their partners up front. 
3. Happy couples have perfected the formula for a fair fight. No one plays the victim and there’s no blame game.
4. They know laughter makes the relationship better. They don’t take themselves too seriously and try to do as many fun things together as possible.
5. Nagging and nit-picking is something happy couples steer clear of. They know that nothing good really comes of it.
6. They don’t look up to the seemingly perfect couples in movies and books. They set their own standards and go with what works best for them as a couple.
7. Happy couples don’t ignore important things like shared finances. They know it’s important to keep each other in the loop about new expenses and chart out good financial plan.
8. They know they’re one unit, but they don’t think it’s okay to be together 24/7. Happy couples pursue their individual hobbies and are fine with spending some time apart.
9. Happy couples are flexible; in the sense that they’re okay with sharing responsibilities and chores without worrying about gender roles. 
10. Last but not least, they don’t judge. Everyone has their quirks and flaws, and that’s what makes a relationship interesting. Happy couples know this and take it in their stride.