Anal sex has often been associated with male homosexuality – in other words a practice that only affects the wellness of men – but in reality it is also something that many heterosexual couples practise. Sexual health could well be at risk from this behaviour, if certain precautions are not taken, so any couples who wish to practice anal sex should make sure that they are fully informed.
Anal sex is forbidden in many countries, but it is estimated that in the US, around 40 percent of heterosexual couples have tried full anal sex or some kind of anal stimulation. Many have suffered no long-term effects to their wellbeing, but others wish that they had been better prepared.
Many people use anal sex as a form of contraception, as of course only vaginal intercourse can lead to pregnancy. Unfortunately, this leads them to thinking that condoms are not necessary, which can lead to them being vulnerable to a huge variety of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) including very serious ones, such as HIV. In fact, having unprotected anal sex is considered even riskier than unprotected vaginal sex. As well as the risk of STDs, couples also risk damage to the anus through penetration.
Couples trying anal sex for the first time would be well advised to take things slowly. Make sure that a discussion takes place beforehand so that neither partner is surprised by the event. Unlike the vagina, the anus does not have any natural lubrication, so it is a good idea to have some kind of lubrication to hand, so that things do not become too painful. Couples can also start with some play in the area, to get used to the sensation, before deciding whether to take it any further.
Above all, couples should not forget to use condoms when having anal sex, and should also remember to use a separate condom for anal or vaginal sex, to avoid infection.