As a man, you are always wondering why women don’t just come out and tell you what they want in dating and relationships. But, it's not that easy. If you knew how to attract women, it would become repetitive and boring. But if you don’t have a list of great personal attributes, a well put-together woman isn't going to put up with you anyway.
Honest and Courteous:- Being unapologetically honest shows confidence and also shows a woman that you have a lot of dignity. Having your own opinion shows a woman that you aren't just trying to impress and please her. It’s very attractive, when you have a sense of pride in the way you treat others. In a woman's mind, this is a direct reflection of your character and future respect for her. So, if both of you are out to dinner and you're being rude to your waiter, then this is a big red flag for us!
Smart and funny:- A woman wants to be able to have conversations with a man that she can exchange with and learn from. She wants a man that will be able to share advice, but also some personal things that he has been taught. This builds a connection and shows a sense of strength and stability in a man. When a man can make woman laugh, they start to share a special bond with them, and women always want to be around someone that brings happiness to the table.
Adventurous and spontaneous:- A man that can keep on toes is very exciting. Don’t be afraid to plan something. This shows a huge sense of pride and confidence. It presents you as a man does not have a timid, insecure mindset and that is so attractive to women. Keep this in mind when you’re wondering how to keep a relationship interesting.
Charismatic and Stylish:- There is something so attractive about a man that has positive energy and makes you feel happy and optimistic. It kind of makes a woman feel so good to be around him or believe he could be ‘The One.’ Everyone attracts different people and they have their own tastes. You might be a hippie. Well, then make sure you smell great, have clean clothes and keep up with your style. This is what it means to present yourself well. Own your look and be confident!
Goal and value-oriented:- This is huge! A man without goals has no direction. A man without values has no self-discipline. Women lose attraction when they have to carry the weight of finding out who you are. This isn't and shouldn't be her job. So, know this before jumping into any healthy relationship! Attraction starts to manifest within a man when he shows up for his life’s purpose.
Intentional:- This can create a huge shift in your dating dynamics. When a woman feels like you are not desperate to rush things so that you can be together, then she will honor and respect this and be even more attracted to you. By doing this, you become a leader and women are attracted to a man that can lead!
The best way to attract women is knowing your individuality as a man and being okay with being alone.