Outercourse, foreplay, non-penetrative sex; whatever you want to call it, it’s important for your sexual health and wellness. There’s so much more to sex than just the end goal, and by focusing purely on intercourse, you could be missing out on something far more erotic and enjoyable. You may think that only women go for foreplay, but, trust me, it can benefit your sexual wellbeing too. So, the next time you’re getting intimate, why not try these techniques with your partner?
Kissing – Irrespective of your other qualities, if a woman doesn’t rate you as a kisser, she’s less likely to want to take things further. Kissing almost defines your entire sexual game so try mixing it up a bit. Let your mouth wander, especially to her neck. This is a particularly sensitive spot and you’ll enjoy it too when she returns the favour!
Breast stimulation – There’s no denying that breasts are amazing, and you can do so many sexual activities with them. However, whether you’re fondling, sucking or going for mammary intercourse (rubbing the penis between the breasts), remember that they are a part of her body and not a squeeze toy. If you want a chance to see them again, treat her breasts gently and with respect and only up the tempo if she likes it.
Mutual masturbation – At the same time, stimulate your partner’s vagina while she rubs your penis. This can be an absolutely mind-blowing experience that can last for hours, and it really bonds you as a couple.
Dry humping – Also known as grinding, dry humping is perfect if you’re stuck in a private place but can’t take your clothes off. It’s basically regular sex with your clothes on, but the clothes barrier adds an edge to the activity and ups the sexual tension.
Frottage – This means that you rub your penis against the outer shaft of her vagina. You may think if you’re getting that intimate you may as well go for regular sex, but the truth is most women get a more powerful orgasm from clitoral stimulation. So, frottage or rubbing is an amazing way to make your partner go wild.