Your emotional needs are closely linked to your sexual needs. If you are connected to your partner, your emotional wellness and wellbeing will be boosted and your sex life will be immediately improved.
One way to connect with your partner and spice up your sex life is to take some outings with your partner. What may seem like a totally innocuous and innocent day trip can make some sexy sparks fly.
For a first outing, why not try a trip to an art museum? Not only will an art museum likely contain examples of erotica, such as nude photos, paintings and sculptures, which may start you thinking about sex and lead to a more erotically charged experience, but the intimacy of the visit may help, too. When you are in an art gallery you are likely to be standing close together, sharing inspiration, talking in whispers and generally enjoying an intimate moment.
Conversely, an amusement park can also have a greatly stimulating effect on your sex life. Going on rides makes your heart race and floods you full of adrenaline. Going on a roller coaster can seem like foreplay, as you stumble off flooded with endorphins and looking for the next thrill! In addition to this, amusement parks also facilitate a lot of bumping into each other, holding hands, grabbing onto one another for security and so on – plus all the sugar from the candy on offer can give you a bit of a natural high too.
A library may seem like the unsexiest location on earth, but when it comes to the bit, all that silence and quiet corners can lead to some serious erotically charged moments. Whether you are studying together, with your shoulders touching, heads leaning over the same book and legs touching under the table, or actually having hot library sex somewhere in the aisles, the solitude and seriousness of the building can actually be a great aphrodisiac.