Female orgasms are linked to many different senses. Unlike men, it is not simply a case of pressing the right buttons (so to speak!) – women need an overall sexual experience to help them achieve orgasm, it is far more sensual and far less mechanical.
Orgasm is great for the wellness and wellbeing, though, as it increases blood flow and releases ‘feel good’ hormones in the brain which fight against stress, anxiety and depression, and also help to cement a bond between partners.
If you want to make a woman have the best orgasm of her life, think about the senses and how they relate to orgasm. For example, women are sexually influenced by what they hear. As well as indulging in a little sexy talk, you should also be vocally expressive when you are having a good time together. Gasping at the right moment or moaning when you feel pleasure help to increase her arousal.
Sight is also very sexy for women – that doesn’t mean that she’ll be up for looking at porn together (although don’t rule it out!) but one thing you could also try is having sex in front of a mirror. Being able to watch what you are doing as you are doing it will be very arousing for her, and can help to create a great orgasm.
Smell is another sense that can turn her on – if you’ve started using a new cologne since you met, get hold of the old one and spray a little bit of it on, just occasionally. The smell will trigger feelings of arousal in her as she remembers the early days when you were at it like rabbits.
Taste is another one – introducing certain sweet foods as part of your sexual routine can lead to heightened sensuality and arousal, and a mindblowing orgasm at the end of it.