Some women love sex more regularly than others, and the tricks they use to make sex more exciting thrill their partners. Whether they’re up for sex or not really feeling it, they still make the most of the opportunity to experiment and enjoy sex. If they’re tired, sex boosts their energy levels; if they’re stressed, sex is a way to relax; and if they’re feeling a headache coming on, sex is the orgasm cure of choice. Here’s how they make the most out of sex.
Think About Sex More
Conventional wisdom combined with scientific evidence, suggests that men think about sex more than women do. But sex-loving women don’t conform to this way of thinking – rather than censoring their sexual thoughts, they embrace them. They don’t feel guilty about fantasising about sex, even if their fantasies err on the more creative side. And because they think about sex regularly, it’s easier to get in the mood when the moment strikes. So why not indulge in erotic thinking? If you see or feel something curved, why not attribute that thinking to a body part and think about touching it until you become aroused. When you’re having sex, picture parts of your partner’s body until you’re sexually turned on by them. And when you’re writing out your daily schedule, there’s no shame in factoring in sex. It can help you to think about sex more and make time for those all-enjoyable sessions with your partner.
Turn Any Mood Into An Erotic Moment
Any emotion, from anger to sadness, can be turned into a passionate moment if you connect with the power it has in an erotic way. The result isn’t just better sex but also a more passionate marriage. If you’ve ever had sex after an argument, you’ll know the electric charge that can come from that range of emotions, and other emotions can create the same feeling. No matter what you’re feeling, there’s a way to connect through sexual passion – try experimenting with sex as a way of healing next time you feel a certain emotion. Next time you feel angry or upset, tap into the energy you’re feeling with that emotion and turn it into an erotic charge.
Take Part In Self-Indulgence
You don’t have to feel guilty about self-indulgence, so why not delight in all your senses when it comes to sex? Enjoy indulging and making time for yourself – is as important as making time for your partner. It’s restorative and helps to remind you that you have a life of your own, so that when you meet up with your partner again you have more to talk about and can enjoy spending time with him as a person rather than one half of your relationship. It’s good for any couple to have interests outside of their relationship – it makes you feel like a temporary stranger to your partner and that can be both arousing and intriguing.
Exercise And Be Body-Conscious
Being body-conscious doesn’t have to be something to be guilty or ashamed of. Exercise and a healthy diet, as with anyone, is good for your well being and can help you feel more confident, both in and out of the bedroom. Spend time working out and don’t be ashamed of enjoying looking at your body; become accustomed to what you like about it and how it feels or moves. It makes sex a more sensual experience and improves your confidence, which is definitely an attractive feature in anyone.