Your sexual health is very important for the wellbeing and wellness of your relationship. There are lots of different ways to have sex: slow and sweet, hot and heavy, quickly and comfortable. Each of these ways is fun for different reasons but there is a certain kind of sex that can bring a couple closer together – in fact, there are a few of them.
Having sex with the lights on is one of them. Most one-night stands or first time sexual encounters happen late at night, and often when a good deal of alcohol has been consumed. Having sex in broad daylight, sober, is a totally different story. All your flaws will be ‘out there’ for the partner to see, without any veil of darkness or alcohol to hide behind. This is the definition of true intimacy.
Middle of the night intimacy is also a very special one for couples. This is when you are both half awake in the middle of the night and can’t keep your hands off one another, even though it is some ridiculous hour of the night or morning. This makes a couple feel that they are really in tune with one another, even when they are asleep.
Trying something new is a great one to boost your intimacy too. It can be a little bit scary to try something that you have never ever tried before, as it makes you feel nervous and a bit vulnerable. Doing something like this together can make you feel very intimate.
Comfortable and familiar sex can also be very bonding. This is when you have been together for so long that you are in a great choreographed routine and you both end up completely satisfied. You do sometimes need to break out of this routine, of course, otherwise it becomes a rut, but being very efficient at knowing what one another likes in the sack can be very bonding and intimate.