We all want to get into relationships, but most of us do not know what it entails. So, we have high expectations and are disappointed when they are not met. Just remember that no relationship is perfect. Here are some things to keep in mind if you are getting into one.
You will make sacrifices
When you are single, you are used to living life on your terms. That may not always happen when you are dating someone. You may have to give up on certain things that are important to you. Compromise is key for a relationship to work and sacrifice is the bitter bullet you will have to bite at times.
Your equation with friends will be affected
Friends are an integral part of all our lives, but no matter how much you try, you will just not be able to give them as much time as you did earlier. That is because you will be spending more time with your SO. So make your peace with it.
You will have doubts
We get into relationships to feel loved, for companionship and to have someone to share our life with. But things will not always be hunky-dory. There will be days when you are filled with regret and remorse, and doubt your very decision to get into a relationship.
You will get hurt
We all want to be in love. But being in love also means being vulnerable. And when you are vulnerable, there is a chance that you could get hurt or be disappointed. It is inevitable, so be prepared.
You will depend on someone else
Are you someone who is used to being independent? Some amount of emotional dependency is natural and healthy in a relationship. So, get used to it. Who knows, you may even come to enjoy it.
Your relationship will be nothing like what is shown in the movies
Our idea of love and relationships is often defined by what we see in the movies. There’s no dancing around trees or breaking into a sad song when you feel low in real life. So keep your expectations in check and stay grounded in reality.
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