If he’s doing these things, he really loves you

If there’s a mantra to follow in a relationship, it’s this – actions speak louder than words. Sometimes, gestures go a longer way than the big three words to show that he really cares about you. And most times, these gestures are tiny ones that can get easily missed out in the larger scheme of things but trust us on this, it’s the little things that count more than the grand ones. So, sit up and take note of these small things the next time you find your man doing it for you. 

Hugs, hand holding, arm around your shoulder – his physical touches go beyond the bedroom and sex. 

This is the 21st century and nothing says love more than a guy who understands equality and is willing to do his bit around the house. Drying the dishes, doing the laundry or cleaning the house, he’s never had a problem doing these things when it’s his turn to.

Ever woken up to a steaming cup of coffee before your toes even hit the floor? It’s just his way of making sure you have a great start to your day, even if it means he has to wake up five minutes earlier for that to happen.

He puts down the toilet seat because he knows how much it irks you to have it up. 

He has no problem buying you tampons or sanitary napkins on days you need it most. Brownie points if he adds in some ice cream during his store run! 

He remembers the small things. It could be something as small as remembering that you take your tea with only two spoons of sugar or that you always keep a glass of water by your bedside before you turn in for the night. 

His gifts aren’t centered around anniversaries or birthdays but rather are random things that reminded him of you. So much cuter, right?

If you share one big bedsheet, he lets you have the bigger portion, even if it means his feet will go cold, since he wants you to be more comfortable. 

He sings your favourite song for you, even if his voice is not the best, he still likes to serenade you with that love song. 

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