While in a relationship, it's expected that partners be together. But this togetherness shouldn't get transformed into clinginess because excessive dependence can harm you in many ways. This is where some alone time can come in handy, In fact, some 'me-time' can actually be healthy for your relationship, according to experts. Here's how.
Giving space
Of course, intimacy needs no boundaries. But, counselors say breathing space in a relationship is necessary. Making a relationship work needs effort; both partners need to overcome several challenges to stay together harmoniously. Giving each other space, even if this involves ensuring me-time frequently, will help both partners to process thoughts and feelings about each other.
The danger of losing oneself
Being in a relationship doesn't mean you have to forget your own identity. Losing your personal beliefs and forgetting your likes and dislikes won't ensure an equal relationship. No one wants a relationship in which one partner dictates everything. So spend some quality time with yourself and think about your own goals and beliefs.
Absence is good
Because it makes hearts grow fonder! Another cliche, but relationship experts say that your me-time can make you miss your bae all the more deeply. Longing for him will make you look forward to greater intimacy with your partner.
Get things done
Sometimes you need to abandon romantic pursuits to get mundane jobs done! If you take some time off for yourself in a relationship, you can take stock and execute what actually needs to be done to make headway in your personal and professional life. Think about it!
Just unwind
Some say that being alone is an art. Sometimes you need to practice this art to get over negative feelings or friction in your romantic life. You need to touch base with your inner self and re-channelize your energies to deal with further challenges. It can even help recharge and reinvent your relationship.
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