Communicate With Yourself

Love yourself and communicate it too

A frequently misunderstood notion, love becomes even more inscrutable when one delves into its true depths. It’s easy to think, say it aloud and even behave accordingly, when we love our pets and parents and spouse and job and the smoked cheese pizza from our favorite food joint. A rarely understood zone, though, is the love for oneself. Many feel they love themselves enough and are tuned to altruism, several are so self-absorbed that they get adjudged as selfish and self-centered creatures who love no one but themselves. The truth is that most people are quite oblivious to the true concept of self-love.

Tell yourself what is right for you

Often enough, people don’t ‘ask’ themselves what is going on with their mind and body and so never ‘feel’ like doing the right thing for themselves. Admissibly so, the wrong is eternally easier, quicker and typically immediately rewarding. We hate ourselves because we overate and didn’t exercise. We despise that we didn’t stand up for ourselves and speak up when we were insulted the other day, we dislike the fact that we sleep late and hence are groggy at work; because we have never looked within and asked ourselves who we really are, where we stand and where we wish to take our ideals and values and our life. Righteousness has always called for sacrifice, effort and pain. However when the drive to do it comes from within, hard work seems like a breeze, pain becomes rewarding and the positive outcome becomes a much-coveted prize. If you only asked yourself what you wanted and listened patiently…

I feel I need to exercise and keep healthy
I want to go for the annual medical check
I feel that I need to get a little more active…
Emotions drive the most wearisome actions to accomplishments. When we feel like loving ourselves, it just happens …

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