The thought of making small talk with complete strangers makes some of us break into a cold sweat. It can feel so awkward, but it’s nearly a requirement at holiday season events like office parties, family dinners and gatherings with friends.
You don’t have to dread your next holiday get together. Make the most of it with the following tips on how to schmooze like a pro, and have fun doing it.
HOW TO READ THE CROWD
A moment often arrives at a party when you find yourself completely alone. Maybe your host has moved on to other guests, or you’ve returned from the bathroom. And there you are, standing alone staring at the group of partygoers. What do you do now?
See if you know anyone
Are there any faces you recognize in the crowd? Even if it’s someone you don’t know well, such as a co-worker you briefly met from another department, or a family member from out of town, you still have something in common that you can start a conversation around.
Watch for welcoming body language
Is anyone making eye contact with you? This is usually a good sign, whether the person is standing alone or in a group. Try to smile at the person, and if they smile back, take that as an invitation to approach and introduce yourself. Whereas, two people standing shoulder to shoulder or groups in tightly closed circles are likely not open to newcomers.
Look for other single people
Is anyone else standing alone? Chances are they’re feeling as awkward as you might be. Approach them and see if they’re open to a conversation. Try saying something inviting like, “Hi! Did you get any of the appetizers? They look great.”
Ask if you can help
If you don’t see an opportunity to approach anyone in the main group, try looking for ways you can offer to help. Maybe you can serve drinks or appetizers, take photos or hang coats. These will all give you opportunities to socialize, and may be easier ways to break the ice with people you don’t know.
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