Do your relationships never last? Have any of your exes asked for more space? Do your boyfriends tend to avoid you after a while? Well, if you have answered in the affirmative to all these questions it could be that you are being too clingy and needy in your relationships. This kind of behavior is a result of the insecurity you feel about your boyfriend. It could be an unfounded fear or it could just be that you want more from the relationship than he does. However, the sad truth is that most men will run a mile from a clingy woman. He is the signs that you are being too needy for your own good.
You keep calling him: You keep calling him all the time even when he makes it clear that he does not want to speak to you. And you repeat dial like a maniac if he doesn’t take your call wondering what's wrong. You also tend to text him obsessively throughout the day.
You keep tabs on him: You don’t trust him and are suspicious about what he does behind your back. As a result, you constantly keep tabs on him by stalking his social media, checking his phone or just by landing up wherever he goes just to check.
You always want to hang together: While it may be fun sometimes, wanting to do everything together all the time can be a huge pain. Everybody loves their independence and your limpet act isn’t going to impress any boyfriend.
Your life revolves around him: You have forgotten your friends and barely have a life anymore. These days everything revolves around your partner so you deeply resent it that he has other interests and a friend circle independent of you.
You want to meet his friends and family: You are so invested in him that you want to take it to the next level by cosying up to close friends and family members. However, that is a big step for a guy and he may not be ready to introduce you to them yet. If you insist he may get very annoyed and even break it off with you.
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