All men know that the key to helping their partner achieve optimum sexual wellness and wellbeing is to find the clitoris and work out how to touch it. Contrary to what most people think, the clitoris is not an automatic on/off switch for a woman’s sexuality.
Being such a sensitive area, you can’t just go straight for it, either. This can actually reduce arousal – the opposite effect to what you are trying to achieve.
The best thing to do is to ease into it. The clitoris is packed with nerves, but the area surrounding it is still pleasurable, without being quite so intense. Stroking around the area can be a great way to get started, as well as pressing on the lower abdomen and caressing the lower area with your fingers.
After you have spent some time ‘warming her up’ so to speak, you can then start to gradually move inwards with your fingers. You can occasionally brush against and lubricate the hood of the clitoris, using a very light touch and a gentle up and down motion.
If you’re feeling particularly clever, you can use your lips as well as your hands to gently stimulate the area.
When a woman is fully aroused and close to the brink of having an orgasm, a large number of little muscles and ligaments that surround the clitoris pull the tip of it back under the good. Contrary to what you may think, this is actually a really good sign and shows that she is feeling aroused and comfortable.
Bear in mind that when a woman is fully aroused, she is just as interested in having sexual contact as you are. Many men feel too wary of making these kinds of advances, even in the throes of passion, but knowing how to handle the clitoris can make it an altogether more pleasurable experience for her – and can even lead to repeat performances.
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