If you are feeling sexual and want to get your partner into the mood, there are various different things you can try. Confidence is the key to wellness and wellbeing in the bedroom, so the best thing to do is decide what you are going to try and then simply pluck up the courage and go for it!
Men especially find being seduced by woman a real turn on. Not only will your new techniques grab his attention, but they will keep it, too.
Teasing is a direct route to pleasing, and when it comes to seduction, giving your partner a taste of what he can have, or what he can’t have, or what he may or may not be able to have, can be an exquisite kind of torture. Wherever you are – be that at home snuggled up watching TV, or out in public with friends – tell him what you’d like to do to him right now. This kind of ‘dirty talk’ will start to get him excited before the main action even begins.
If you’re in a really public place and don’t have the opportunity to talk dirty to him, then why not try a bit of sexting? Text him the details of what you’d like to be doing, or what he can expect later, and he’ll be on the edge of his seat all night.
Men also love it when you take charge in bed. When you finally get underneath the sheets, tell him exactly what you want him to do, and what you’re going to do to him in return. You can also have a bag of sex toys prepared in advance. Bring these out when he least expects it and watch his jaw hit the floor when he realises that you want to introduce some playing into your sexual routine.
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