Whether the mood just isn’t right, or you’ve got an early start in the morning, sometimes sex can be the last thing you want when you crawl into bed, but what about those times when, seemingly inexplicably, you don’t get the intimacy you were after? Is there something about you that is a massive turn off? Of course not, you’re great! However, five things in your room are the secret culprits that are ruining your sex life.
Firstly, take a look at your bed sheets. Are they pink and flowery or covered with images of characters from Glee? Sorry, but they have to go. If you want to take care of your sexual wellbeing, you first need someone who’s willing to jump into bed with you, and that means not leaving a barrier of Cory Monteith on the bed. For a hot sex life, you need a boudoir, not a teenage bedroom. That doesn’t mean going all out with black satin sheets and mirrors on the ceiling, but sometimes plain, clean crisp sheets can be just as inviting.
When you’re sitting in your new, adult bed, take a look at the floor. Is there dirty laundry where your carpet used to be? Pick it up this instant. Whether it’s a partner you live with, or you’re bringing home someone new, no one wants to go to bed with a girl who lives in a dump. You need to create an inviting, tidy environment, which also means making the bed in the morning.
Next, you may be a Facebook favourite or a top tweeter, but your phone has no place in bed. Put it down, and back away from the phone. Your sexual wellness depends on it! While we’re on technology, number four on this list is that lovely square box where all your imaginary friends live. That’s right, TV. Why wait until you’re falling asleep in front of reruns of fictional characters, when there’s a very real person who might want to have sex with you? Don’t wait until you have to drag yourself into bed, but jump in before that stage, so you won’t be too tired.
Finally, when you are getting into bed, have another think about those fluffy pyjamas. Yes, there’s nothing you love more than a good pair of cosy pjs, but do you love them because they make you look oh so sexy? Didn’t think so. If you’re trying to spice up your sex life, try a simple, silk slip or, even better, go naked! It may not be a corset and fishnets, but anything (or wearing nothing!) is much more of a passion-starter than your jammies.
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